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Form of the Funeral Ceremony
There are two main traditions that are observed:
1. The funeral ceremony, traditionally lasts over 49 days, the first seven days being the most important.
Prayers are said every seven days for 49 days if the family can afford it. If the family is in poor
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A Temple Roof in Wat Chalong, Phuket Island - You can clearly see the Chofahs |
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circumstances, the period may be shortened to from 3 to 7 days. Usually, it is the
responsibility of the daughters to bear the funeral expenses. The head of the family should
be present for, at least the first and, possibly the second, prayer ceremony. The number of
ceremonies conducted is dependent on the financial situation of the family.
The head of the family should also be present for the burial or the cremation.
2. In the second tradition, the prayer ceremony is held every 10 days. The initial ceremony and three succeeding periods of ten days until the final burial or cremation.
After 100 days a final prayer ceremony is conducted, but such a ceremony is optional and not as important as the initial ceremonies.
In the Mahayana tradition of Buddhism, to which most Chinese Buddhists subscribe, it is believed that, between death and rebirth, there is an intermediate period called Antarabhava in Sanskrit or the Bardo in Tibetan. It is an important period which has an influence on the form that the rebirth shall take. If the family ensures that proper assistance in the form of prayer and remembrance ceremonies are duly performed, the departed is better able to take a favourable rebirth.
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